Odd Perspectives

Hidding from love

From another perspective, singlehood did not become an option because the sources of phileo love have decentralised, but rather, the acceptance of singlehood in today's society has liberated many minds while at the same time, become a seemingly legitimate reason for not getting hitched.

Love is a necessity because we are created by God for relationships, and with the capacity to love. We are to love God and we are to love our neighbors as ourselves, aren't we? But the undeniable truth is that many people aren't ready for love and as a matter of fact, are hiding from it. Whether due to fear, shame or pride, their hearts are never free or capable of giving, much less, loving.

At the end of the day, it is not really about whether you found the One, but whether you are ready when he/she walks into your life. Ha, you can run, but you can't hide... So be ready to forgive, to be healed, to open your heart, to change, to give, to embrace and to love again. God's love encompasses all.

Raine said, 'you don't marry the person you can live with, you marry the person you can't live without.' I totally agree with both hands up! So to all my fellow singletons, I wish you will find the one whom you can't live without and embrace the shores of marital bliss soon! Here's a toast to true love... Cheerios!

posted by /Jan-ne-sis/ @ 9:29 PM